Aidan and Sleep

Assalamualaikum.

Kali ni nak bercerita tentang aidan dan tidornya.

Selalu dengar kisah terpaksa berjaga malam disebabkan anak and mostly dengar sebab anak bangun merengek and what not. Umi pon selalu pesan kalau aidan bangun malam nangis rengek rengek. make sure check segala celah yang ada dekat dia. By means, check pampers dia, check baju dia takut ada semut what not, garu garu telinga hidung semua mana tahu gatal.

But we didnt really have to do that. Sebab aidan always had a good sleep.

Masa first few weeks, we had to wake up almost every hour, sebab dia nak bangun menyusu, and masa tu dia tengah nak tidur beriba. So, selalunya i will wake up first every that hour to put him on my lap, which he would doze off back, tapi lepas still bunyik bunyik so i handed over to his Petrol Station, the mother, But we always make sure he should be fed every 2-3 hours. But he would wake up every hour. And that was the most hectic moment.

I was in tagging period that time sebab baru dipindah ke Hosp Machang, So selalu malam malam balik pukul 10-11 malam, then kena get ready nak tidurkan aidan. Making sure everything is ready, i sitted myself at the end of the bed against the wall sebab senang nak ribakan dia sambil menyandar. Selalunya by 1-2 am, barulah dia boleh diletakkan atas katil, so barulah i boleh lay down and sleep. Sampai pukul 3, which is he is gonna wake up and need feeding, so amirah akan fed him dan letak balik, dia akan bunyi bunyi sikit but then bila i riba dia, he will sleep so soundly. After an hour gitu baru boleh letak balik, and wake up the next one hour, sampai lah pukul 6 then need to get ready to work. it was a hard time for amirah jugak, bila dia nak feeding every 1-2 hour amirah kena mengensot bangun with the wound beneath her utk feeding, but it was like other moms perhaps, but it surely is painful. Love you mother.

Masuk bulan ke dua, he changed. But easier, he loves sleeping pronely on chest. It was easier for us too, Well fed than lay him over our chest, dia akan tidor for 1-2 hours. After a session of feeding then sometime boleh letak bawah sometime cont tidor atas dada. but we woke up lesser since that.

Daytime plak, dia susah nak tidor, mengempeng is one of the way, tapi tak sustained, dia macam kena selalu di dodoikan, so that time, my father in law setted up satu buaian hanged from the ceiling, which help us a lot. bila dia tertidor we will put him inside and memang dia akan lena for few hours. plus buaian tu electronic which automatically akan dodoi dia. masa tu la both of us baru dapat buat kerja lain sikit.

Masuk third month ni. both of us makin berani biar dia tidor mengempeng. actually start dari dua bulan lagi. which might be not good, first cautios of reflux, next, tabiat. sejak tu memang nak mengempeng je. tapi langsung tak ganggu waktu malam. dia nak nyusu dia isap, nak banyak sikit isap banyak la sikit bunyi hek hek, tapi mudah. alhamdulillah.

Sekarang pon he actually went to sleep easier, certain time je dia akan menangis walau nipple dekat mulut. sambil membebel bebel haha mostly sebab tak cukup tidor sangat or penat sangat.
but overall, alhamdulillah aidan gave us good sleep at night, ada masa yang memang abah tak bangun langsung sampai ke pagi, sorry umi hahaha

Looking forward more changes of him.

Aidan first trip !

tentang aidan.

ada sebuah kisah abah nak cerita, tentang pengalaman pertama bawak aidan berjalan jauh. sampai ke penang. selepas dua malam di perak. pengalaman mendewasakan umi abah.

Aidan was 2 months old. yes masih kecik. mak bapak pulak jenis suka jalan jalan but we werent that hard core pon. bukan selalu jalan jalan. jarang cuti so we took the chance.

umi, abah and aidan. takde orang tua nak teman. habis postcall pukul 4 petang kami gerak. my first longest drive tho. tak pernah drive sejauh tu. and the worst route in malaysia ni. memanjat banjaran titiwangsa. with anak kecil. wrongly calculated. tak sempat sampai gerik before maghrib. but aidan was nicely behaved along the trip. tak nangis sangat. cuma lapar kadang kadang. nothing weird happened pon.

pengalaman mendewasakan nombor satu : 

around pukul 8 malam, selepas lenggong. aidan bosan teramat sangat perhaps. he cried mostly cuma diam bila buka lampu dalam kereta. takut gelap kot. but at one point. he cried nonstoppingly so we decided to stop by at one petrol station, dia just lapar and tak selesa. cuma kami gelabah because he was being loud and we had to use the toilet yang tak baby friendly but luckily is clean enough. cuma kelam kabut sorang angkut aidan yang menangis nangis berlari ke jamban tukar pampers and umi siapkan susu. tercampak habis barang bekas semua. haha there was another car beside us. satu family, i dont know what they might thinked of, sepasang 'remaja looking like' kalut ribut uruskan anak haha

trip later on was smooth, terus menginap dan rehat, tidurkan aidan yang kepenatan, and yes dia meragam teruk, tak nak tidur taknak menyusu dada. he slept eventually tapi i think satu hotel tu boleh dengar suara dia kot.

the next day was dumb.

i brought him to mirror lake. ingat smooth je sekali penuh pancaroba. masuk tunnel what not. hadap anjing kuari la. rasa macam bersalah sangat but entahla kenapa tak patah balik. bad dad. haha umi dia ikut je. haha but it pays. the view was amazing.

then we headed to acafe for a nice breakfast. masa patah balik tu aidan meragam teruk tak nak duduk dalam stroller and tak nak menyusu what not and ipoh was hot and cramped, tapi takleh buat apa dah luckily sempat habiskan breakfast authentic mahal tu so we just pushed him in the stroller sambil dia meraung raung through the alley and roaside semua orang pandang whatsoever kami tebalkan muka haish pity my aidan.

tengah hari we went to rumah kawan umi di ulu kinta. 

kali ni dia meragam paling teruk and yes ulu kinta was soooo hot. i broke my 20 hours of life tumblr beli semata mata untuk the trip sebab tercampak dari kereta masa kelam kabut terus pecah tepi jalan.

aidan cried so bad. tak nak susu badan bottle semua, selam air mandi pon tak jalan, nasib baik mak kawan umi was so nice tolong tenangkan aidan. he then fell asleep sebab penat nangis kot. i was wet, dengan peluh basah semua, umi pon. he cried the worst in his 2 months of life. we were so mati akal.

the evening we grabbed some hokkaido ice cream and dimsum, tapi semua bungkus take away, sebab aidan tak menjanjikan situasi yang menenangkan. haha

that night was another worst night, meraung satu hotel. semua tak jalan. toksah sebut apa semua tak jalan. we noted that susu tepung tu macam rosak so i went to buy a new one. tapi last last pon aidan tidor sebab penat nangis. 

tapi that was the last moment dia meragam tak terkawal. selepas ipoh aidan berubah.

penang was super smooth. the trip, the bukit bendera the museum, pasembuq pusing pulau and night time was super easy. we went to many places and yes most of them pon macam panaih panaih melekit tapi aidan behaved so well.

umi was amazing as well. both of us were amazing and will be better. umi was calm. i can say that every situation is so panicking. kalau baby dah tak layan semua penenang dia memang mati akal. but umi was so calm. and we were both very understanding toward each other. we were a great team. we managed all the situation calmly walaupon raungan aidan menggegar ipoh. poor all the people dekat hotel tu haha.

to little more steps of aidan growing up. my adventurous boy.

Aidan

Assalamualaikum,welcome to my new blog.

A blog i restarted specially to my boy. Sebuah penceritaan untuk dia pada masa akan datang. Dan juga sebuah blog untuk membantu ibu bapa muda seperti kami, though we are not that young, but being parent has always been a new experience to any one entering that phase of life- so did us : me and my wife. walau diberi bimbingan orang tua, tapi terkadang terkapai, entah setiap langkah betul atau tidak, terkadang ragu, semata demi anak yang ingin dibesarkan sesempurna mungkin. Demi insan baru yang kami sentiasa jangka, dan akhirnya berada di pangkuan.

Sepanjang bersama ahli baru ini, selalu saya perhati isteri saya, mengorek ilmu dari segala ceruk demi mempelajari sesebanyak ilmu yang dapat dikutip, bersumber pengetahuan dan pengalaman dari setiap ibu bapa di luar sana. sesedikit sebanyak membantu. So, i decided to tell stories about him, jika ada tersinggah boleh mengetahui juga, cerita tentang bagaimana dia membesar, biar serupa atau tidak sama, kerana setiap anak itu berbeza.

Hence, this is the stories of Muhammad Aidan Bin Muhammad Ammar.

yes You, Aidan.