Aidan and Thursday Tantrum

kenapa thursday?

hokayy sebab selalu i suka bawak my wife and kids keluar on thursday, walaupon jumaat nya i still kerja but thursday got its own vibe, macam chillin vibe gitu so hari khamis suka jalan jalan.tapi aidan ni tantrum mestila tak ikut hari. 

yang nak cerita ni tak ingat dah jalan sampai mana rasanya tak jauh macam selalu. sekadar cari kopi dan chillin2 dalam kereta dengan family dekat kuala terengganu je kot. amirah mesti ingat. i dont always remember the details.

and aidan macam okay je. dia asal naik kereta jalan jalan always okay. cuma masa balik kali tu je. memang dia always ada desire dia sendiri. most of the time lah, in every things and routine. semua ada jeee desire nak buat sendiri. and rasanya haritu i postnight and post pm shift jgk kot. macam campur2 penat sikit so tak larat sangat nak layan karenah aidan ni.

apa yang jadi was, bila sampai je depan pagar around kul 10 malam kot. so si aidan ni suruh keluar balik dan buat another 1 pusingan sebab dia tak puas hati dah sampai rumah dah. actually memang kerap jadi camtu, mostly sebab i malas nak layan tantrum dia so i ikut je. undur balik kereta all the way dekat lorong tu and then pusing 1 short route, tapi kalau jalan jammed and kereta banyak tu rasa macam geram jugak la. so that night i macam fine i buat 1 pusing satu round, short trip.

dah elok sampai depan pagar tu dia cakap nak turun and nak bukak pagar tu sendiri. tengah tengah malam ni hoi. nak leceh leceh bawak turun bukak pagar and obviously kena masukkan balik dalam kereta sebab i nak park kereta balik. so that time we decided tak nak ikut sangat semua angin dia. so whats happen is dia mengamuk. we keep on being strict and straight, so trigger ah tantrum dia. mengamuk melolong. pastu mula hilang arah lari lari dalam rumah pakai selipar menangis2 muka habis basah air liur lah, air mata lah, hingus lah. suruh umi dia buatkan susu, pastu tiber suruh umi dia buang balik susu. yup, dia macam lost dah apa yang dia nak. 

(my draft stopped right there, tak sempat nak habiskan sebab I was typing in masa takde patient dekat clinic, now that it has been 2 months since I wrote in only now I'm getting back to blog rasanya dah lupa what i was planning to share, and this two months hasnt been easier but new challenge and hardship both of us are going through will always be whats making us a better parent, so ill just publish that one and heres a gallery of aidan's mid tantrum)

nope, not a pic of his tantrums