yuk - TT

salam

sambil sambil kerja tengah takde patient and keyboard clinic ni plak keybaord mahal memang sedap nak type type so jom kita bercerita pasal anak kesayangan abah, si aidan.

disclaimer : all the posts in my blog sekadar ditulis supaya one day abah bleh baca balik and mengenang balik segala memori membesarkan awak sayang ku.

so aidan is deep in his teribble two phase. dalam phase ni aidan memang nak selongkar all his daily routine and intentionally nak buat sendiri semua rutin tu independantly, like soooo independantly.

awal awal tu kami tak perasan yang dia memang insist nak buat semua benda sendiri end up selalu trigger dia punya tantrum so awal awal pindah tu memang layan tantrum dia je. and he had very terrible tantrum. high pitch cry, so loud, tak bleh nak cool down and it lasts for almost an hour and continuous.

almost every step got tantrum. me and umi dia mati akal dah nak layankan tantrum dia. and i end up almost mengamuk few times because tak nak la self proclaim panas baran tapi ughhhhh and luckily umi aidan keep pesan me to cool down and dont get mad. so kadang2 umi dia kena layan tantrum si aidan and tantrum si abah sekali hahaha

and by time when we notice that aidan memang kaw kaw nak buat semua benda sendiri then we follow with his flow. we let he did all the things he wanna do himself and i mean every damn thing !

kalau hari yang dia wake up and full blown independant mode tu it will include dia nak turn on switch lampu bilik sendri, bukak baju seluar pmpers sendiri, bukak lampu toilet sendiri. bukak paip air sendiri, berus gigi sendiri, selek ubat gigi sendiri, sabun sendiri, tutup paip air sendiri, kilas tuala sendiri, and bila masuk bilik tu tak bleh lap badan dia yg basah tanpa kebenaran dia, memang kena request berkali kali untuk lapkan badan dia, dia nak ambik pampers senidir, unplastered sendiri, (nasib baik plaster pampers tu dia kasi abah buatkan) then pakai baju seluar bedak, sikat rambut semua sendiri.

harder part is, bukak lock pagar sendiri, unlock kereta sendiri (yang ni around 10 minit sebab lock tu very sensitive) unlock pagar, bukak pagar everythingggggg hahaha

very challenging nak nak hari yang umi abah kena gerak awal. alhamdulillah most of the time abah jarang shift start at 8 so sempat la nak settlekan aidan.

mind you, kalau lah ter langgar sop dia, ter buat benda yang dia nak buat sendiri memang definitely akan trigger tantrum dia. and kalau dia start tantrum memang gg la. dia akan repeat benda sama sambil menangis menjerit, mengamuk, dan kalau masa dia mengamuk tu dia terlanggar apa apa dia akan gigit that thing eventho benda tu adalah kerusi atau kabinet dapur. n everything got so mess up. haha

contohnya kalau tertutupkan paip tanpa kebenaran dia memang definitely dia akan bukak tutup bukak tutup countlessly hahaa sambil menjerit meraung dengan alunan lagu bersamamu as background. haha semua benda jadi tak kena haha

tapi since kami tahu yang dia cuma nak do his thing indepedantly kami follow je dia and at the end memang jarang tantrum dah, tapi memang menguji kesabaran la. 

later for more update